Tuesday, November 3, 2009

The hard road we are on!

In this weeks blog I will discuss my economic shortcomings and the circumstances that have led to my current state. It is my sincerest hope that people who read my blog feel comforted by my words and can share in my optimistic outlook. Many people have been in my situation and many others soon will be. Best of luck to all who face these hardships and the harsh reality they bring.
A year and a half ago, I was on top of the world. I had an excellent job, beautiful house and positive outlook on life. When the nations economy fell so did my financial stability. I lost my job and my house. I now reside in my parent’s basement. I have not had to live with my parents since I was 17. Living with my parents can be difficult at times. The space is cramped and there is no privacy.

I am quite content living there. So many people, in this country, did not have relatives to turn to when the economy fell. I have the unique opportunity to save money in an effort to rebuild my portfolio and financial stability. I am making strides to repair my credit score and pay all of my debts. I have become more aware of money and its inherent value. This is a knowledge that will serve me well, even when my finances become better suited to the lifestyle I once had.
I have acquired a new career, with a respected organization. I have been advancing quickly and will soon manage my own store. The pay is not nearly as high as my previous salary, but the job is much easier. There is a great possibility that, by switching companies, I have added years to my life.

Many people faced with these circumstances become depressed and retreat inside of themselves. I say, when life starts knocking you down get back up and fight back. I am physically and mentally better than ever. My financial security will improve. The situations I must endure in the interim are unimportant and will not affect my mood or outlook on life. People who truly struggle, at one point in their life, and then overcome their hardships have a greater appreciation for life and the good days they do have.

5 comments:

  1. Sweetheart, money is not security, the love of a family, friend and significant others. those parents that took you in, that's security. Why would you start building your finances and think you can depend on them again. This Country has had a long span of blessings and not paying for it's wrong doing. But our kingdom has been weighed in the balance and found wanting and now we must surely die. That was what God told one of the kings in the bible and the only way he didn't he turned to God. Turned his face to the wall to symbolize he rejected the world and he would be loyal to God. God allowed him to live and he started wars and circumstances that caused death to scores of people. So turn to God: He is your hope, He is your stability; I am not saying don't save but don't depend on this system, it is and will collapse. Hit me back with your take on my info. With God's love and wisdom to you. kay

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  2. Hello.
    Sounds like my story. I too will overcome! Good luck to you.

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  3. Hello,

    Some words of advice that was pasted on to me from a wise person.....ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS TO SHALL PAST.... AS LONG AS YOU HAVE YOUR FAMILY SUPPORT AND TRUST IN GOD EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.

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  4. It is an all too common story. Stay positive and enjoy every day because tomorrow is not guaranteed. And love on those great parents :)

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  5. I can also relate to what you are saying and how you feel I lost my job also due to the economy but one thing I kept with me was my faith. Continue to keep the faith and trust in the Lord....Best Wishes...

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